Saturday, July 24, 2010

Remembering the Good Times


Today marks the 1 year anniversary of my Grand-Daddy losing his 4 year battle with cancer. Words can't express how much I miss him, nonetheless I know he is in a better place where he's no longer suffering. I still can't believe its been a year already. Everything is still so fresh, in my mind, that it saddens me to put my thoughts into words.

The other day I was watching a video of my 2006 Champaign Party and when my Grand-Daddy's interview came across the screen I was taken back to the sadness I felt on the day I learned of his passing. It was so surreal to see him before I knew of his aliment, he looked healthy and happy. I was able to gain comfort in the fact that he shared such a milestone moment  in my life. I then began to recall all the good times we shared together with family and friends, which made me realize how much fun we had. So even though he is gone I won't dwell on losing him, instead I will remember the good times we shared and Thank God for blessing me with such loving person.

~~R.I.P. Grand-Daddy I love you!~~

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Party! Party! Party! Lets All Get Wasted!: 4th of July Edition

The Cabo Wabo Firecracker

What’s in it?
2 shots Cabo Wabo Reposado Tequila
¼ shot Sugar Syrup
6 Fresh Pomgranate Juice
1 shot Passion Fruit Juice

How to make it:
Muddle pomegranate in base of shaker. Add other ingredients; 
shake with ice and fine strain into chilled galss.

Happy 4th! Drink up!

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Laws to Live By!

When I first read the 48 Laws of Power I was much to young to truly understand the message. Recently, a friend of mine told me how he was applying the Laws in his own life. This inspired me to take another look at them for myself. This very powerful information that can elevate your level of thinking and help you get to the next successful stage in your life.


The 48 Laws of Power

by: Robert Greene and Joost Elffers
Law 1
Never Outshine the Master
Always make those above you feel comfortably superior.  In your desire to please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite – inspire fear and insecurity.  Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power.

Law 2
Never put too Much Trust in Friends, Learn how to use Enemies
Be wary of friends-they will betray you more quickly, for they are easily aroused to envy.  They also become spoiled and tyrannical. But hire a former enemy and he will be more loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove.  In fact, you have more to fear from friends than from enemies.  If you have no enemies, find a way to make them.

 Law 3
Conceal your Intentions
Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions.  If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense.  Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelope them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late.

 Law 4
Always Say Less than Necessary
When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control.  Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike.  Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less.  The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.

 Law 5
So Much Depends on Reputation – Guard it with your Life
Reputation is the cornerstone of power.  Through reputation alone you can intimidate and win; once you slip, however, you are vulnerable, and will be attacked on all sides.  Make your reputation unassailable.  Always be alert to potential attacks and thwart them before they happen.  Meanwhile, learn to destroy your enemies by opening holes in their own reputations.  Then stand aside and let public opinion hang them.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Shop or Die: Summer Must haves

There is no doubt summer is in full affect, and we all know the hotter it gets the less clothes you need heheheh... These Victoria Secret Monokini's are going to set the beach, and maybe your pockets, on fire this season! LOL


Shop or die on a Budget:

This site  has a cute collection for those who aren't trying to through down more than $100 on swimwear. POW!

These Cazal 865's smashed onto the secene  in '08 but they are still a must have on my list (if you can still find them)...HOTT!


Wednesday, June 30, 2010

I've placed my heart under lock and key...




...To avoid another let down! 

Sometimes it's better to just step back and let things happen instead of expecting them to happen. *Quote Me* 


Back on my ish...

Been gone off my Blog for a min, but I'm back with some new ideas and things to share. MUAH!

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Moving Back Home!



Super excited to be moving back home tomorrow! Had a great school year and even better grades, but it's time I get to my city...10 hours & counting *Jumping for Joy*

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Let's Play a Love Game ;)


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The game of love can be a dangerous one to play, yet still we fall in and out of love time after time. Even if it doesn't fully develop into "Love" people can still get hurt. You always have to remember that no matter how hard you try you can't teach an old dog new tricks. So maybe the solution is to get rid of the old dog and buy a new one!

All I want is to be able to trust every single person I come in contact with, but its just not possible. I'm the kind of person that trusts someone until they give me a reason not to. Many have told me that I'm just way too nice and when it comes to guys I need to put my foot down more often. However, I still give people chance after chance only to be let down in return. It seems like in every situation, no matter how much I give, I gain zero reciprocity.


Im not saying I do everything perfectly, we all make mistakes but it takes a mature person to own their mistake. Realizing you did something wrong is only half the battle, confessing it is the next step. Compounding your problem by lying only adds insult to injury. Just own your sh*t because what's done in the dark will eventually come to light!

"Love can be a dangerous game to play... " *sips tea*

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Writing is Therapeutic


Most of the time I like to consider myself a level headed person. Yes, I have my moments where I can't stand to breathe the same air as some people, but a lot of the time I enjoy those around me. There is nothing like having a strong support system made up of your closest friends and family members. Even on your worst day those loving people always seem to make things a little bit easier. However, there is a certain person in my life that I could really live without. I can't stand having to put on a fake smile and pretend that everything's okay when it truly isn't. Am I the only one thats ever had to do this? The worse part about this situation is having this particular person in my family.

I know I can't replace my gene pool, although when this person is around I really wish I could. Maybe I should feel guilty for thinking this way about someone who is so close to me, but the truth is I don't! Honestly this person has NEVER been there for me so its hard to even consider them family. We truthfully are only bonded by blood. Every time our paths cross I just want to smack the sh*t out of them and let them know how much of an asshole I really think they are. But for the sake and sanity of those closest to me I refrain from doing so. It just hurts me to know all the lies, and broken promises that have come from this person over the years. So its hard to keep from losing it when I look in the mirror and see so much of that person looking back at me. 




FYI...

As of now the content on this blog will consist of my thoughts, my feelings on the things going on in my life, and other things I'd like to share with people. Just remember my personal opinion is just that, an opinion. I created this blog as a hobby and a way to keep myself busy. At times I feel like I need an outlet to get certain things off my chest and just express different emotions I may be experiencing. Hopefully by reading my posts you can learn some new ways to approach certain obstacles in your life. As you get to know me through my posts you will learn that I'm all about living with a purpose. My purpose in life is to be remembered for helping people in any form that I can. With that said I hope you like what you see! *Fingers crossed*


Hello, thanks for visiting. Unfortunately my blog is currently under construction so bare with the changes as they may continue throughout the weeks to come.



"My purpose is to remembered..."




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